MUMblings!

Now a days I see most of the middle aged women having fibroids in uterus. Can anybody explain the cause of fibroids and any precautionary measures to prevent the occuarance of fibroids?

Hannu is one and half years old and is using bottle for drinking milk. I thought its time for him to switch to cup and tried to make drink in a cup. All my efforts were vain. Atlast I hid his bottle and told him that ghost has taken away his bottle and he needs to use his cup for drinking. Listening to my words, my son has started trying out drinking in cup. He didnt even ask for his bottle once. But he is not showing much interest in having milk as he used to. His act made me feel guilty. By forcing him to take milk in a cup, am I lessing his interest in drinking milk? How innocent are kids. My son belives whatever I say. Am I doing justice to his belief? Earlier I felt bad but then I made up my mind saying whatever I am doing is for his sake and goodness.

We actually have a very strange problem. Our son Rajiv is now three years old and is in perfect health. We are very happy with the way he’s growing and learning everyday. The problem is that Rajiv is very naughty. Many people have advised us that naughtiness is a good thing and indicates a healthy child. Some people have even told us we’re lucky to have a naughty child because of the endless hours of entertainment. But the truth is that it is exhausting. He’s at the age where he needs to explore and investigate everything. I’m not worried about him damaging our things. I’m very worried that he will hurt himself. Because of this I follow him around like a shadow and end up tiring myself out completely.

Lately we have tried a new strategy. We switch off the lights in all the rooms expect the living room and we both sit down and chat. Because Rajiv is afraid of the dark, he doesn’t venture far and stays within the living room. This works well for us whenever we need some rest and relaxation. But now I am filled with guilt. I feel like I’m fueling his fear of the dark and instead of encouraging him to get over it, I’m using his fear to my advantage. I feel like such a bad mother. I don’t know what to do. If I just let him run wild, I’m too tired to be a decent mother anyway. I feel so helpless! What do I do?

Hi

I am Diya. Would like to share my experiences as a New Mom with you all.

Me and my hubby like to travel alot. But after Hari’s birth we had been putting off travel plans until he is older. Unable to give up the tempataion atlast we decided to go for a tour. We packed all the necessay and precautionary things for our son.

Hassle started when we travelled by car. Our Hannu started to vomit in the car travel.
As we had took him to the pediatrist before the travel and had the necessary medicines with us,
we some how managed. Tour was fun filled. But after coming back the actual trouble started.
Hannu fell sick. He had dehyderation. We had to hospitalise him. We were unable to see our 1 1/2 year old kid suffering. Now we have made a decision that no more travels until our son is ready for it.